Typically, participants reach this stage when they feel comfortable and have found common ground. Here, you express your opinions on the topics discussed. Examples might include:

“Skiing can be quite costly.”

“I dream of skiing in Jasper, Alberta.”

“I’m counting down to retirement.”

“I’m considering a job change soon.”

This level may even touch on sensitive subjects like politics or religion, but it’s wise to tread lightly and avoid revealing too much too soon. For instance, while you might share concerns about the rising costs of university, wait until you know the person better before discussing personal financial decisions related to it.