The chart below can be used as a guide to help you with some of the signals that people send.

Non-Verbal Communication  Interpretation
Facial Expressions
Frown Displeasure, unhappiness
Smile Friendliness, happiness
Raised eyebrows Disbelief, amazement
Narrowed eyes Anger
Blushing Embarrassment
 
Eye Contact
Glancing Lack of interest
Steady Active listening, interest, seduction
Hand/Arm Gestures
Pointing finger Authority, displeasure, lecturing
Folded arms Not open to change, preparing to speak
Arms at side Open to suggestions, relaxed
Hands uplifted outward Disbelief, puzzlement, uncertainty
 
Body Postures
Fidgeting, doodling Boredom
Hands on hips Anger, defensiveness
Shrugging shoulders Indifference
Squared stance or shoulders Problem-solving, concern, listening
Biting lip, shifting, jingling money Nervousness
Sitting on edge of chair Listening, great concern
Slouching in chair Boredom, lack of interest
Clothing
Business dress Authoritative, conservative
Sloppy attire Disrespect, lack of responsibility
Casual clothes Relaxation
   
Proxemics (Physical Space)
From physical contact to 18 inches Intimate space
From 18 inches to 4 feet Personal space
From 4 feet to 8 feet Social space
From 8 feet outward Public space
   
Voice Characteristics
Speaking loudly, quickly, and with clipped enunciation Anger
Monotone and downward inflection Boredom
High pitch, fast rate, loud volume, and upward Inflection Joy
   
Status Symbols
Rare or expensive possessions High status
Prestigious titles High status