What we say is not always what the other person hears. Our message goes through a complicated system of filters and outside influences before it reaches the recipient. We must always clarify that the person has received the message that we intended to send.

  1. What is said
  2. Speaker’s Biases
  • Body Language
  • Tone of Voice
  • Words
  • Expressions

     3. Listener’s Biases

  • Past experiences
  • Maps of reality
  • Education
  • Assumptions
  • Emotional state
  • Distractions

     4. What is heard